FACING LOSS WITH RESILIENCE

Dr. Boss reveals that resilience is especially important when there are no immediate solutions. This is often what intimate partner abuse survivors face: no immediate solution. Sometimes, coercive behavior continues even after leaving. Dr. Boss prescribes adaptability, flexibility, and tolerance for ambiguity. What do these mean for victims of intimate abuse?

WHO AM I NOW? DISCOVERING YOURSELF AFTER BETRAYAL TRAUMA

Betrayal Trauma is a phenomenon that occurs when there is a violation of trust by someone whom we depend on for survival or to whom we are significantly attached.

REFLECTIONS ON TRUST

Relationships without trust are like trying to drive a car without wheels. It won’t take you to where you want to go.

THE IMPORTANCE OF STORY

As we begin a new year, it’s important to recognize that new beginnings include telling your own story.

A TOOLKIT FOR RESPONDING TO COERCIVE CONTROL

After survivors learn the tactics of coercion and attend to their injuries, they can focus on how to respond in ways that empower them and disempower the controller. They do this by learning how to keep abusers’ blame, negation, and gaslighting from having power over them.