Communities Working Together to Support IPV Victims
Intimate partner violence victims’ safety has always been linked to how communities work together to reduce IPV. Unfortunately, our society’s response to IPV often enables violence.
Building the Plan(e) While Flying It
/in Controlling Relationships, Domestic Abuse, Intimate Partner Violence, Uncategorized /by JenniferBeing under a Safe at Home order is an oxymoron when it comes to IPV, since home is where you’re in danger.
Triggered by Coronavirus
/4 Comments/in Emotions, Intimate Partner Violence, Uncategorized /by JenniferTrauma symptoms can worsen when triggered by current stressors.
WHY THEY TRY TO FIX YOU
/in Controlling Relationships, Domestic Abuse, Intimate Partner Violence, Uncategorized /by JenniferA member of the Women’s Voices group posed this question. Her family and friends either criticized what she was doing or went into fix-it mode whenever she confided in them. All she needed was to be listened to, empathized with, and encouraged. We had a discussion in group, and I promised to write a blog on the subject as well.
LIVING LIFE FREE OF FEAR
/in Controlling Relationships, Domestic Abuse, Growth, Intimate Partner Violence, Self-esteem and Confidence, Uncategorized /by JenniferI counsel everyone who is embarking on something new to expect feeling fearful. It usually feels like jumping off a cliff. All the insecurities we have (and we all have them) jump out to convince us we can’t make it.
WHEN HOLIDAYS AREN’T MERRY
/in Controlling Relationships, Domestic Abuse, Uncategorized /by JenniferIf we’re thinking of leaving the relationship, we often want to get through the holidays and put off any decisions we’re contemplating, especially when we have children. That means maintaining our mask—putting on a pretend face with family, friends, or others. I believe those who suffer from intimate abuse are the best ones to know the timing that is right for them. The last thing you need is second guessing from others who are concerned for you.
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