ASSERTIVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS: REQUEST AND REFUSAL
This assertive communication skills series begins with two self-defining skills: assertive request and assertive refusal.
ASSERTIVE BELIEFS
/in Assertiveness, Coercive relationships, Empowerment, Growth /by JenniferAssertive Beliefs is the seventh blog in my empowerment series for victims of partner abuse. You must believe you have the right to be assertive before using skills: this article builds that foundation. It covers definitions, benefits, beliefs that may interfere, an assertiveness skills list, and steps to work on the belief that you have the right to stand up for yourself.
REPAIRING PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL BOUNDARIES
/in Coercive Control, Controlling Relationships, Empowerment, Intimate Partner Violence /by JenniferRepairing physical and emotional boundaries is the fifth in my empowerment series that began with How to Empower Yourself. This step begins with believing you have the right to set limits.
CHANGING NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
/in Assertiveness, Coercive Control, Coercive relationships, Empowerment, Growth, Self-esteem and Confidence /by JenniferNoticing and adjusting your thoughts is an important mental health skill for everyone. Change negative thinking and you’ll change your life.
CENTERING SELF-CARE TO REGAIN YOUR RIGHTS AND POWER
/in Coercive Control, Empowerment, Growth, Mindfulness, Self-esteem and Confidence /by JenniferCentering self-care de-stresses and connects you to your emotions and thoughts. This creates a resilient buffer from all stress, including abuse. By regaining your former self-care methods and perhaps adding new ones, you can reconnect with yourself and regain your power.
PARTNERS’ DOMINATION BELIEFS LEAD TO 1) Abuse 2) Submission
/in Coercive Control, Coercive relationships, Controlling Relationships, Empowerment, Socialization /by JenniferLooking at the assumptions that underlie coercive control helps explain why your partner behaves abusively. Sometimes they admit these beliefs, but mostly it’s their behavior that shows you what they believe.
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