Considering Divorce

Survivors, as well as those who work with them, will find my interview with Attorney Holly Slota from Pines Bach LLP in Madison, Wisconsin, informative. Those who contemplate leaving often feel fear about the unknown legal system, making an already complicated decision more difficult. Abusers often tell their partners information that is inaccurate because they want to manipulate or frighten them.

Allies for Survivors

Allies are the first pearl in the necklace of insight, hope, and healing. Victims know the difference between an ally and someone who has an agenda.

WE ARE NOT WHAT HAPPENS TO US

The term “victim” does not identify who anyone is, nor does it reflect on their worth. It denotes what happened to them.

Going Beyond Fear of What We Don’t Know

Acknowledging what we don’t know represents strength when we use our curiosity and “inner scientist” to learn about it

Anger as a Super Power

Intimate partner abuse survivors have one or more of the following experiences with their own anger. Actually, all but the first one are common for others as well. This blog will explore each type before talking about anger as a superpower.